Your Confidence, Your Responsibility

Your Self-confidence is Your Responsibility

Your level of Self-confidence will affect your level of performance in every area of life where it is deficient. The real deficiencies where we lack confidence are often hidden deep within, where they sometimes manifest and look like something else. This requires serious reflection on our part. This is why we must take responsibility for our own development.

Often, we think our problems are things in the external world that hinder us, when the reality is, it is something internal, e.g., wrong thinking, untagged emotions, or some undisciplined behavior. These are internal workings that will manifest in our external world. We cannot be confident in ourselves when our thinking is not right. Wrong thinking produces wrong emotions. We cannot be confident in making the best decisions when our undetected emotions are running the show. Wrong emotions will produce wrong behaviors and wrong responses. And inappropriate behaviors will always crush our confidence, especially when they occur in social settings.

One of my most important discoveries is the role that learning plays in our growth and development.

“It is what we are willing to learn, that closes the gap between where we are, and where it is we desire to be.”

I am Coach DianaD,

Learning and Development Coach

Author, Coach, and Founder of SelfMasteryBlog.info